Let me be honest here: You could be a non-binary person. There's nothing stopping you.

Is that really what you want?

If you’re at this point, and if your wish is sincere, it’s because there’s some part of you that really wants to live as a non-binary person. And that’s totally okay. You can be non-binary if you want to, and we’ll help you get there.

Nothing's permanent about this decision.

If you decide you don't like it, you can always choose to stop being non-binary. There is always a path back. Nobody but you can permanently change your gender, and nobody can trick you into wanting to being non-binary if you didn't before. All we can do is help you reconnect with your own existing desire. No matter how you found this site, this is your decision. Nobody else should make it but you.

You can always come back later if you’re not ready yet. You are 100% valid no matter what you choose.

If you’re ready, go make some tea, sit down in a quiet calm place, and give yourself as much time as you need.

I want to be non-binary!

No, wait! This isn’t for me!

If you're not sure, consider the following questions:

• Does imagining yourself as non-binary help you relate to other non-binary people?
• Do you wish your friends would see you and treat you as someone non-binary?
• Do you wish you could wear more androgynous or gender-neutral clothing? Do you feel awkward or uncomfortable as your agab in your agab’s typical clothes?
• Do you wish you could be seen as more androgynous, with gender-neutral traits?
• Do you want to wake up tomorrow in an androgynous body?
• Are you curious about what it must feel like to be non-binary and what non-binary people go through?
• Do you wish people would call you “they” or “them”, or refer to you in more gender-neutral ways?
• When you grow old, do you want to grow old in an androgynous body?
• Do you have a big stupid grin on your face right now while reading this?